There is a huge difference. 

Parenting from guilt means you are guided by your conscience, your internal sense of right and wrong. 

This is usually based on your spiritual beliefs.

When you raise your children based on current popular opinion, being admired, gaining the most likes on social media; you are parenting from shame. 

You are focusing more on what other people will think of you than on what is right and best for your child.

The current fad of parenting can change and is not always the most effective approach in the long run. 

Follow your inner compass. 

Strengthen your connection to God and you will make wiser decisions.